Excerpt from: Union Bulletin (click for full article)
“At the end of the day, they’re really just two guys living in this house.”
With
a broad smile and upturned palms, Jim Hough characterized the situation
in the East Walla Walla home shared by his brother, Brian Hough, and
Mark Nibbler.
“They
want to hang out in their boxers, be on their computers and eat chili
mac. It’s not just disability guys doing that. You have laundry on the
floor (to be sorted) and the category is ‘dirty.’ Sorting is
unnecessary. They’re guys.”
Despite
Jim’s summation, the house of two young men living with developmental
disabilities is remarkably tidy and not on just this day, moms Carla
Nibler and Teri Hough agreed, nodding heads at one another.
Brian’s
obsessive-compulsive disorder — one component of his disability — helps
keep a tight ship, both environmentally and socially, even when he
tries to over-manage his housemate’s life.
In
turn, Mark’s knack of letting things roll off his back adds a calming
influence. And, at the end of the day, the longtime friends make this
experiment sustainable, their mothers agree.
As head of Walla Walla County’s
Developmental Disabilities office, Hough encourages families to plan
for the future and what it will look like for their disabled son or
daughter. “I talk about ways to live independently. There are all kinds
of ways to do so and we want people to think about doing it. And be
creative.”
It
was the logical move for his brother, Jim said. “Moving out isn’t just
about living away from your parents, it’s about getting out and doing
things.”
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